A throw back to the song that was once popular, and overcoming, pun intended, the American taboo of talking about sex. Puritanical society still exists within America even though we all do it. With the Suffragettes winning their battle and the sexual revolution over, both men and women are allowed to enjoy sex. Why not? It feel good and is like a mind cleaning devise. Have too much and it can cloud your mind.
It amazes me to think that women up until recently were frowned upon if they enjoyed sex. They have more nerve endings packed in a smaller area, so of course it will feel good.
People have all sorts of preferences, such as internal or external stimulation. This post could go on for days describing the many kinks and hidden secrets of people and their sexual preferences. I am not trying to explain those and they are what they are. Preferences. Yes, on my blog a word can be a sentence. It's a fascist regime here.
Some people finish quickly, others go on for too long. There are those people that you are content having it occasionally, other may do tiny things that turn you on so much that you need it almost every time you see them. People even enjoy having sex with certain people more then others. You have people who are quiet, others obnoctiously loud. Biters that leave bruises and scratchers that leave two, four finger n ur back for days.
I've heard, "Oh my God I never had so many in my life!" and "I give it to him whenever he wants because I love him and want him to be fulfilled.... Even though it made me feel like a piece of meat." I heard that and had to say, its completely alright to say no. I've even heard, "I had more sex with him than all the times before times ten!"
I write this not to explain my sexual preferences, abilities, or inabilities. Frankly I'm probably not that good. I write this because I was talking with a friend
about sex. He said, "there are two types, hard and soft." I disagree because there are many forms of it. You have love making, sex (the same positions over and over), drunken sex, and shower/bath sex. You have the, I'm gonna wake you up by rubbing my butt on your crotch sex, morning sex, the lets not get caught sex(my favorite but I'm usually embaressed afterwards.) I continued listing on the lets have sex before our date so we can hang out and actually talk all night and have meaningful conversation sex, make up sex, break up sex, and the list went on. The point is sex should be seen as two people sharing a moment together. Re-read the list above and think about each and every moment. I said, "there are many forms, you are sharing the moment, and you have it for different reasons."
Then like many other guys, he felt the need to detail down to the freckle, his lovers anatomy to me. I'm sure women talk about size and how long a guy can last, or certain things that were great. Guys do too, but for as sexual as I am and how much I enjoy having sex, I do not need a painting of your lovers anatomy. If I wanted to know that much, I would have sex with them myself.
Maybe its just me but when I truly care about someone, all those things are private. That's my lover and you do not need to know or be picturing anything about them. The things we do are between us. I don't know, I am very sexual and open but it annoys me when I am told the details of a person's lover/love life. I find it disrespectful and I could give a crap about her two freckles on the right side of her vulva.
Sex, whether kinky, rough, soft, or whatever, is two people sharing a moment. A culmination of their emotions, arousal, playfulness, and fantasies. It is communication between two bodies listened to, not by the ears, but sensation. "Some conversations are best left unsaid," I was told once. So please, your conversation with your lover and extreme details should be for you.
Everyday when I talk to the girl mentioned above, I'll be doing it, thinking about two freckles and know way more then I wanted to know. She's an attractive woman that I never thought sexually about(Ok, ok, once or twice, but she was in a bikini and its a proven fact that women in bikinis are seen as sex objects by men). That harshed my mellow and I feel bad that I could describe her anatomy without ever seeing it. Some things are best left unsaid.
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